Every nation has its own characteristics, which are not always clear to other people.
Kaktakto talks about the five habits of Central Asians who are puzzling to foreigners.
1. Residents of Central Asia take the time to greet
The greeting is part of the tradition: it is impossible to imagine Central Asian residents who have greeted each other and ran about their business.
When meeting, they should definitely greet each other, even if they are hostile. At the meeting, it is necessary to perform an entire ritual - not only to say hello, but also heartily inquire about the interlocutor's affairs, and in every detail: how is the house, how is the wife, how is the children, is the household, is the fridge full? It is necessary to answer traditionally: thank God, all is well.
All this takes a lot of time and sounds very emotional, especially when two women meet.
2. Pour tea exactly half or even on the bottom of the bowl
Hospitality is an immutable law for the inhabitants of Central Asia. They are accustomed to living in large families, surrounded by neighbors. And public opinion is very important to them.
ПTherefore, the guest is ready to be accepted at any time and there are always candies, nuts, dried fruits, flat cakes and honey on the table. And of course no one will be released without tea. “Do not drink tea, where will you get the strength from?” They say in Central Asia.
The more valued and respected the guest, the less tea is poured to him, so that he will often turn to the owners for the supplement and sit longer. Bringing tea to the dear guest, the right hand is applied to the heart - as a sign of respect.
3. Throw pebbles into a festive treat - sumalak
Sumalak - a traditional sweet dish that is prepared once a year on the day of the spring equinox - Navruz.
Sumalak is made from sprouted wheat grains, which are ground and then boiled in a cauldron in cottonseed oil with flour added for 20-24 hours. There are also added small stones, which, naturally, are not used for food. They are used to reduce the risk of sumalak burning at the bottom of the cauldron.
There is even a sign: if you get a pebble from the bottom of a cauldron, then you need to set the most intimate desire. It will come true.
4.Kalym for the bride
Wedding is one of the most ambitious and exciting events in the lives of Central Asians. The requirement of kalym (ransom) for the bride is a matter of ordinary, since it is an important part of the wedding ceremony. Most often, the size of the ransom is negotiated before the celebration itself and depends not only on the financial condition of the groom, but also on the availability of higher education in the bride.
In some countries in the region, brides with medical, legal, and economic education are valued more than others. The average price of such a traditional buyout ranges from $ 500 to $ 10 thousand. Money, as a rule, remains in the family of the bride and covered their expenses for preparing for the celebration.
By the way, the system “Sarpo” is very developed in Uzbekistan. This is also an expensive pleasure.
5. Solve problems together - using the “hashar” method
The life of an inhabitant of Central Asia always takes place in society. Almost never he remains alone: neither in grief nor in joy.
And the problems here are also used to solve together. The most commonly used is the so-called “khashar” method, where everyone who wants to make his own financial or physical contribution to solving the problem of the neighbor. For example, it is quite normal for the whole village to build a house for those in need.